Firstly congratulations…you have found the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with. You are about to embark on an epic journey filled with romance, nerves, and hopefully, a resounding 'YES'!
Assuming you only plan to do this once in your lifetime, this blog will help you plan a proposal that's the stuff of legends, a story you'll be retelling for years with a twinkle in your eye. So, grab your notepad and let's dive into the art of crafting the perfect proposal.
Know your Partner
Seems obvious right but do you know your partner inside and out. What makes them happy? What do they like? What will make them cry with happiness like they are chopping the most potent onion in this world? The key is to plan a proposal that resonates with them. If they are an introverted bookworm, a stadium proposal at your fav sports team will not go down well. If they are all about adventure, then an underwater proposal in a shark tank might be just the ticket!
The Ring - is it all about the size?
If you are planning to propose with a ring, do you know what style your partner likes or what style represents them best? If not, go full undercover stealth mode by walking past jewellery stores with them, checking their Pinterest boards (within reason) or enlisting the help of a close friend or sibling/parent. Locate a jeweller who can help with selecting that symbol of your eternal love. If you have friends that have already proposed with a ring, ask for jeweller recommendations and help. And most importantly, know your budget and stick with it!!
Location, Location, Location
Where you propose is almost as important as how you do it. Think about your relationship's unique story – the place where you first met, where you had your first kiss, or where you shared a special moment like a past holiday. If you don’t have such a place, simply pick a location that feels romantic and allows you to create that special moment.
A Speech to Melt Hearts (or Make 'em Laugh)
A proposal is your chance to tell someone how much they mean to you. Write down 3-4 things that you want to say at that special moment and remember them ready to share. Personal anecdotes, shared jokes, and your genuine feelings will go a long way. And once done remember to get down on one knee and propose!
Plan the Execution
You have the ring, the location and the speech. But have you planned how you are going to execute it all? Have you made a reservation at the restaurant if required? Checked the weather? Informed staff that you will be proposing? Arranged a photographer to capture the moment? Figured out how you are going to conceal the ring in whatever clothing you may be wearing? Execution will be far easier and less stressful if you add thought and plan to the proposal.
Asking for your partner’s hand in marriage (if appropriate)
Yes this is traditional but often a noted respected gesture that many partners will still appreciate. Tell your partners closest people or person how much they mean to you and if they would be happy for you to ask for their hand in marriage. Brownie points all round - but again only appropriate in your personal situation.
After the proposal
Your partner says yes (of course), so what do you do after? Plan something to extend the celebration and enjoy the moment. Bottle of champagne, reservation at a nice restaurant or sharing a pick and mix. Whatever it is, savor the moment.
Conclusion: In the end, the perfect proposal is all about your unique love story. Add your own flair, charm, and a generous dose of love to make it an unforgettable moment for both of you. So, go forth, be brave, and may your proposal be filled with laughter, love and a happily-ever-after.
Happy proposing, you charming romantic, you! 💍❤️
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